oh it’s my pet peeve when people don’t set the right expectations. sometime i provide those people padding by saying, “hey its completely okay if this isn’t your thing or I’m not the right person. i’d much rather have you be honest than nice”.
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Purely anecdotal but anytime someone has assured me "don't worry, I'll follow up with you" — 100% of the time they do not do that lol And it may be a "polite" way of telling me "for the love of god please don't message me" but idk, there must be a better way
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Usually this happens when I say something along the lines of "I'll check in on [day/timeline] if I don't hear anything" which makes it odder imo.. But now bc I don't believe certain people I'll also say "worst case is it doesn't work out and that's ok"
I guess sometimes you have to set your own expectations, because you can at least trust your own gut for the most part