Maybe I'm just shy, but networking feels so bad when the purpose is to get a job from it. It would be so much better if I didn't feel like I'm just asking, but I also don't have anything valuable to share yet. Does anyone struggle with this too?
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I just like… i don’t network. I look for real human connection and nurture relationships over prolonged amounts of time as much as I can. I literally cannot network for the sake of networking or work things, it makes me feel ill
Yes, I have the exactly same feeling every time too, May-li. The thing is: some influential people says that it's expected to be like this while networking. Maybe I should get away from this thinking for good.
Yeah! I mean for one I feel like we are at a time when it’s urgent to stop treating each other transactionally as much as we have the capacity to. Between loneliness and nihilism and all the fallout from that, I just…
And second I think power loves to shake hands with itself and pat itself on the back. It believes and spreads its own survivor bias narratives. But that’s why I feel so strongly about living in ways that create good ground for collective action, which needs trust and solidarity
It is interesting that you've said that because I've followed the “networking way” thinking that people were just too busy to build friendships, even though I believe that kind of connection is vague.